im hayden and i have issues with society
im truscum and anti-sjw, not anti actual justice
i am rude to everyone unless you don't bug me
a reminder that dysphoria is a spectrum and can be literally debilitating or simply discomforting depending on who experiences it, and that truscum believe you need to experience some degree of dysphoria to be trans
is it just me or it’s actually kind of creepy when people say “i was thinking about gender on the bus”, “trans people are my life”, “i’ve spent this last week researching latin suffixes to make this list of genders”
they talk about gender the way other people talk about their favorite band or their favorite series. it’s a gender fandom.
i don’t know, but seeing trans issues discussed like that feels extremely trivializing to me (and many other people, truscum and not), and creepy.
when a group of trans people tells you that what you’re doing makes them uncomfortable, and your only reply is “ur truscum trash truscum deserve no opinion”. when an even larger group of trans people is made uncomfortable by this, but they’re too afraid to speak up because they saw the harrassment that people get if they disagree. maybe your attitude is the problem, not truscum.
It is a fandom, it creeps me out too.
What really creeps me out is when people say
"Hey guys look at these pronouns/genders that I just thought of"
Because not only have they just totally made up a gender, they vehemently deny it being made up wand will seriously and aggressively attack you for calling it out. Like, that’s not normal brain function. That’s almost something someone with narcissistic personality disorder or something similar would do. It’s legitimately terrifying to me that there are people who treat gender like their own personal headcannons.
See unlike all these non-dysphoric trans people, I can’t just identify out of being trans. Cis privilege is being able to drop being trans whenever you want to. Actually having dysphoria, my options are transition or live in agony for the rest of my life. Even if you transitioned, only to realize you were cis, detransition will not give you all of your dysphoria back like it does in a dysphoric’s case. And that is cis privilege.
You Aren’t Boring I Just Suck At Conversations I’m Sorry: a novel by me
I’m Not Ignoring You I Just Don’t Know What To Say: a sequel by me
I Feel Like I have Nothing Interesting To Say So I Don’t Say Anything At All And I’m Really Sorry Don’t Stop Talking To Me: the trilogy.
Have you ever played a video game where you have to sleep to recover? They only let you do it if everything is safe. Otherwise they won’t let you sleep. You’ll get a message, saying “You cannot sleep now, there are monsters nearby.”
Now, remember the last time you just couldn’t get to sleep?
Don’t you fuckin do this to me
did you just turn part of Minecraft into something scary because if so i love you
i don’t remember ever doing this post… and i wasn’t intoxicated i know that